As a creative person, I’ve historically found administrative to-do lists terrifying. I’d start off gung-ho, then turn into a morose Hamlet-type. “To get it done, or not to get it done. That is the question.” All those unticked boxes came to symbolize shame and guilt. They mounded up so heavily I couldn’t lift them. Why try?
In retrospect, each administrative task I listed was made of a subset of smaller tasks that could have comfortably been completed had I tackled them over a realistic timeline. But that would have been too kind.
I eventually decided to content myself by moving the needle ahead a bit each day. Everything I needed to do is recorded in my brain, I told myself. But somehow, the things in my head rarely shape in reality. To friends, I described my undone to-do’s as a nebulous cloud of spacejunk orbiting my head. In complete overwhelm, I would procrastinate. Ironically, I felt constantly busy everyday. I’d close the word doc of my novel-in-progress and open the internet browser. Elephant-sized dread weighed on my chest and my brain would skid to the curb.
Cut to years later, when my anxiety escalated. I realized that the dormant to-do’s I needed—nay wanted to get done—could allow me to unstifle myself and share my words. They would allow the true me to step forward into the vision I hold. This realization changed everything.
I love to write, so the creative half of my day comes easily. Through expressive journaling, I yanked up the roots of my resistance to the administrative half. At the suggestion of a friend, I began journaling daily as a way to make friends with tasks I’d previously avoided. My anxiousness about what to do next has shushed for the most part. Some days I let tasks slide, because if I don’t love me …
We artists must be kind to ourselves, especially during this pandemic period when we’re all thrown off centre. At the best of times, left-brain activities fit most of us like tight suit. For many, even consistent creativity during COVID represents struggle. I call on the Buddhist idea of joyful exertion. We each find our way in when we’re ready. All steps, even baby ones, are a cause for celebration.
Sharing this feels a bit like modelling a bathing suit under fluorescent lighting—which puzzles me because I’ve shared more personal things without batting an eyelash. But the spirit moved me and so here I am.
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